Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Beautiful Fro Baby

I am loving big hair today! Thinking of taking out Bella B's box braids and letting her fro rock! This video got me in the mood. When I was a little girl I used to dream about having a big huge fro. I guess my dream came true when I was blessed with my beautiful fro baby!

Friday, September 16, 2011

Our Hair Care Routine

Establishing a hair care routine has been a life saver in our house. At the beginning of this journey Bella B would not sit still for nothing. I would be lucky to be able to comb and detangle her hair after a wash. Styles where rarely done and a lot a tears where shed from the both of us. A lot of the times I would just get so frustrated from her not sitting still that I would just give up.

Since establishing our routine, hair time has completely changed. Bella B is sitting longer then ever and allowing me detangle and style her hair (which I know is a lot to ask from a 2 1/2 yr old). I try to do protective styles that will last 1-2 weeks if possible.

Our current routine is as follows:

Friday: take down day, we remove the style worn for the week and deep condition. Lately I have been applying EVOO (extra virgin olive oil) to damp hair and adding a shower cap then I cover her head with a warm wrap. I leave it in for 1-2 hrs while Bella B plays then I rinse with warm water.

After rinsing her hair I co-wash (wash with only conditioner) and let the conditioner soak in while she plays in the tub. I then rinse with two big cups of cold water, I read this helps close to the hair follicles and retain moisture.

After her bath I section Bella B's hair, detangle with a wide tooth comb and apply a leave in conditioner. Currently we are using Cantu Shea Butter Deep conditioner. Then I apply coconut oil to each section of hair to seal in the moisture.

After adding the coconut oil I either braid, twist or band her hair until the next day. This keeps her hair from getting tangles and  it also helps stretch her curl pattern and make her hair easier to style the next day.

Saturday-Sunday: I usually style on the weekends we have been doing a lot of box braids with beads. Bella B loves beads she enjoys shaking her head and all of the different colored and shaped beads. We usually watch a movie while styling and I am able to get most her her head done. We take lots of potty breaks, dance breaks and snack breaks which helps Bella B stay focused and  sit still while in her chair.

Monday-Thursday: I moisturise as needed and fix any braids or beads or twists that may have come out or loose.


So far this routine is working great for us and we will continue with it untill I see a need for a change.

Monday, September 12, 2011

Natural hair care has always been apart of my life. From a very young age my mother always told me to never dye or perm my hair. Still to this day I have my natural hair color and I am glad I never processed my hair with any chemicals.

When I was pregnant with Bella I would often have dreams of how she would look and how her hair would be. I was pleasantly surprised when I removed her hat in the hospital to find a thick head of beautiful curly brown hair.

For the first 6 months of Bella's life she rocked a fro with a bald spot in the back. Eventually by the time she was one the bald spot started to disappear and her hair started to thicken up. Up until recently the only products I used on her hair where: baby wash (A BIG NO!) and baby soft spray.

Bella's hair was extremely dry from me over washing it and always allowing her to wear her hair out. She was starting to experience a lot of breakage which was a huge wake up call to me. Since June we have established a hair care routine and have been experimenting with different products and protective styles to help promote growth.

I am proud to say I have been noticing a huge difference in Bella's hair. It seems softer healthier and stronger and is defiantly longer than ever before. I haven't been measuring but I believe her hair has grown about an inch since June and is retaining thickness with out all of the breakage I was experiencing before.